After half a century treating sexual health concerns in Delhi, I’ve heard the same story countless times: “Doctor, I mentioned this to my GP, but they just wrote a prescription and rushed me out.” Or worse: “I was too embarrassed to bring it up at all.” The truth is, most general practitioners—through no fault of their own—simply don’t have the time, training, or comfort level to discuss sexual health in the depth it deserves.
As someone who has dedicated over 50 years exclusively to sexual wellness at Ashok Clinic in Pitampura, I’ve witnessed firsthand the gap between what patients need to know and what they’re typically told during rushed appointments. Today, I’m sharing the insights, truths, and knowledge that rarely make it into standard doctor visits—but absolutely should.
The Uncomfortable Truth About Medical Training and Sexual Health
Here’s what most patients don’t realise: medical schools in India dedicate remarkably little time to sexual health education. Most doctors receive perhaps 5-10 hours of instruction on sexual dysfunction across their entire medical education, compared to hundreds of hours on other body systems.
This isn’t a criticism of general practitioners. They’re extraordinarily skilled at what they do. But sexual health is a specialised field requiring dedicated training in endocrinology, psychology, relationship dynamics, and yes, traditional medicine systems like Ayurveda that have addressed these concerns for millennia.
When you visit a general doctor with erectile dysfunction, low libido, or premature ejaculation, they’re often working from limited training and tight time constraints. They may prescribe medication—which sometimes helps—but rarely have the time to explore underlying causes, discuss comprehensive treatment options, or address the psychological and relational dimensions of sexual health.
Insight #1: Your Sexual Health Problem Probably Has Multiple Causes (And Needs Multiple Solutions)
In 50 years of practice, I’ve rarely encountered a sexual health issue with a single, simple cause. Yet this is how most doctors approach treatment—find one cause, prescribe one solution, send you on your way.
Reality is far more complex. Consider a typical case of erectile dysfunction in a 42-year-old man:
Physical factors: Slightly elevated cholesterol, restricting blood flow; sedentary job, reducing cardiovascular fitness; moderate stress, affecting hormone levels.
Psychological factors: Performance anxiety from one “failed” experience, work stress occupying mental space, fatigue, and reduced interest in intimacy.
Relational factors: Communication breakdown with partner, partner’s hurt feelings, interpreting reduced intimacy as rejection, escalating tension, and making sexual situations stressful.
Lifestyle factors: Poor sleep affecting testosterone production, excessive alcohol consumption on weekends, and lack of exercise compound vascular issues.
Which single cause should we treat? The answer is: all of them. This is why integrated approaches combining medical interventions, Ayurvedic support, lifestyle modifications, stress management, and couples counselling consistently outperform single-solution treatments.
Your general doctor typically doesn’t have time to uncover this complexity. A standard 10-minute appointment barely scratches the surface. Specialised sexual health treatment requires 45-60 minute initial consultations, detailed questioning, and a willingness to explore uncomfortable topics. This depth of investigation reveals the multiple factors your GP simply cannot discover in a rushed visit.
Insight #2: The "Quick Fix" Mentality Is Sabotaging Your Long-Term Sexual Health
When doctors prescribe medications for erectile dysfunction without addressing underlying causes, they’re not necessarily wrong—they’re just incomplete—pills like Sildenafil work. For many men, they work remarkably well. But here’s what your doctor probably won’t tell you: you’re treating a symptom while underlying causes continue progressing.
If your erectile dysfunction stems from developing cardiovascular disease, taking ED medication allows you to function sexually while the vascular problems causing it worsen over time. You feel like the problem is solved because you can achieve erections, but the cardiovascular disease—which can lead to a heart attack or stroke—continues unchecked.
Similarly, if stress and cortisol elevation are suppressing your testosterone and causing erectile issues, pills might restore function temporarily. But chronic stress continues damaging your health in numerous ways—increasing risk for depression, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and cognitive decline. The ED medication masks one symptom while stress ravages other systems.
This isn’t about rejecting pharmaceutical solutions. It’s about comprehensive care. In our integrated approach at Ashok Clinic, medications may absolutely be part of treatment—but they’re one component of a strategy that also addresses cardiovascular health through exercise and diet, reduces stress through counselling and meditation, supports hormone production through Ayurvedic herbs and lifestyle changes, improves relationship dynamics through couple therapy, and creates sustainable health improvements rather than symptom masking.
Insight #3: Your Sexual Health Is a Window Into Your Overall Health
Here’s something most doctors know but rarely communicate effectively: sexual function is an incredibly sensitive indicator of overall health. Sexual health problems often appear years before other symptoms of serious conditions.
Erectile dysfunction frequently precedes heart disease diagnosis by 3-5 years. The same vascular narrowing that restricts blood flow to the penis is occurring throughout the body, including in the coronary arteries. But because the penile arteries are smaller, symptoms appear there first. Erectile dysfunction is often the body’s early warning system for cardiovascular disease.
When a man in his 40s presents with new-onset erectile dysfunction, I don’t just see a sexual problem—I see a potential cardiovascular problem that needs evaluation. We check cholesterol, blood pressure, blood sugar, and other cardiovascular markers. Many times, we’ve identified serious health conditions early, allowing intervention before heart attacks or strokes occur.
Similarly, low libido often signals hormonal imbalances, depression, chronic stress, sleep disorders, or various other conditions affecting overall health. Premature ejaculation can indicate anxiety disorders, hyperthyroidism, or other systemic issues. Female sexual pain might indicate infections, endometriosis, or hormonal problems needing treatment.
Your general doctor, focused on the presenting complaint during a brief visit, may miss this bigger picture. Sexual health specialists understand that addressing sexual concerns often means addressing serious underlying health conditions—potentially saving lives in the process.
Insight #4: The Mind-Body Connection in Sexual Health Is Stronger Than You Think
Medical training traditionally separates “physical” from “psychological” causes. Your doctor might determine your erectile dysfunction is “psychological” (meaning no obvious physical cause) and suggest counselling, or “physical” (meaning they found a medical cause) and prescribe medication.
This artificial separation misses a crucial reality: mind and body are inseparable, especially in sexual function. Psychological stress creates physical changes—elevated cortisol suppresses testosterone, chronic tension restricts blood flow, and anxiety triggers sympathetic nervous system activation that inhibits arousal.
Conversely, physical problems create psychological consequences. A man experiencing erectile difficulty due to diabetes may develop performance anxiety that persists even after blood sugar control improves. A woman with painful intercourse due to hormonal changes may develop anticipatory anxiety, causing muscle tension that perpetuates pain even after hormonal treatment.
The most effective sexual health treatment addresses both dimensions simultaneously. At Ashok Clinic, we might combine Ayurvedic herbs reducing physical stress response with mindfulness techniques addressing psychological anxiety, medication improving immediate physical function with counselling reducing performance pressure, and couples therapy improving communication with lifestyle changes supporting hormonal health.
This integrated approach, combining physical and psychological interventions, produces far superior outcomes to either approach alone. Yet most general practitioners, constrained by time and training, typically offer only one or the other.
Insight #5: Ayurvedic Medicine Offers Proven Solutions Your Doctor Probably Doesn't Know About
Modern medicine excels at many things, but it’s relatively new to sexual health treatment—most pharmaceutical options have existed for only 20-30 years. Ayurveda has addressed sexual wellness for over 5,000 years, refining treatments through millennia of clinical use.
Herbs like Ashwagandha, Shilajit, Safed Musli, and Gokshura have been used for centuries to support sexual function, with contemporary research increasingly validating traditional applications. Studies show Ashwagandha significantly reduces stress hormones while supporting testosterone production—addressing both psychological and physical factors simultaneously. Research on Shilajit demonstrates measurable increases in testosterone and energy. Clinical trials on Safed Musli show improvements in erectile function and libido.
Yet most general practitioners received zero training in Ayurvedic medicine. Even if they’re open to it philosophically, they simply don’t know which herbs work for which conditions, appropriate dosing, potential interactions, or how to integrate natural remedies with conventional treatments.
This knowledge gap means patients miss out on treatment options that are often gentler, have fewer side effects, work on multiple levels simultaneously, address root causes rather than just symptoms, and produce sustainable improvements rather than temporary effects.
The ideal approach—which we’ve practised at Ashok Clinic for decades—integrates both systems. Use modern diagnostics to identify specific problems with precision. Apply Ayurvedic herbs to address underlying imbalances naturally. Add lifestyle modifications supporting overall health. Include counselling for psychological factors. Reserve pharmaceuticals for situations where immediate intervention is needed, or natural approaches prove insufficient.
This integration gives patients access to the broadest possible toolkit for sexual health—far beyond what general practitioners typically offer.
Insight #6: Sexual Health Problems Are Rarely "Just Physical" or "Just Psychological"
Your GP might say, “It’s all in your head” or “It’s purely physical—here’s a prescription.” Both statements are usually wrong.
Consider stress-induced erectile dysfunction. Chronic stress elevates cortisol (physical change), which suppresses testosterone production (physical change), reducing libido and erectile function (physical symptoms). But stress also creates mental preoccupations, preventing arousal (psychological effect), triggers performance anxiety (psychological effect), and causes relationship tension (relational effect).
Is this “physical” or “psychological”? It’s both, inextricably intertwined.
Effective treatment must address the complete picture: stress reduction techniques like meditation (psychological intervention), Ashwagandha or other adaptogens reducing cortisol physically, lifestyle changes eliminating stress sources, counselling addressing anxiety patterns, couples therapy improving communication and intimacy, and possibly temporary medication supporting function while other interventions take effect.
This comprehensive approach requires time, expertise, and willingness to explore multiple dimensions of health. General practitioners, however skilled, rarely have the luxury of providing this depth of care during standard appointments.
Insight #7: Your Relationship Dynamics Might Be the Missing Piece
Here’s something most doctors won’t explore: how your relationship affects your sexual health, and vice versa. Sexual problems both result from and contribute to relationship difficulties, creating cycles that medical treatment alone cannot break.
A man experiencing erectile dysfunction may withdraw from all physical intimacy to avoid “failure.” His partner interprets this withdrawal as rejection or loss of attraction. She becomes hurt and distant. The emotional distance increases his stress, worsening the erectile dysfunction. The cycle escalates.
Or consider a woman experiencing painful intercourse who becomes anxious about sex. She starts avoiding intimacy. Her partner feels rejected and becomes resentful. The resentment creates emotional distance. When they do attempt intimacy, her anxiety is higher due to the tension, making pain worse. Another destructive cycle.
Breaking these patterns requires a couple of counselling sessions addressing communication, emotional dynamics, hurt feelings, and intimacy patterns. We’ve seen countless cases where relationship therapy combined with medical treatment produced dramatic improvements, while medical treatment alone had been ineffective.
Yet most general practitioners never meet your partner, never explore relationship dynamics, and consequently miss this crucial dimension of sexual health.
Insight #8: Lifestyle Factors Matter More Than You've Been Told
Your doctor probably mentioned “lose weight” or “exercise more” in passing. What they likely didn’t explain is how profoundly lifestyle affects sexual function—and how specific lifestyle changes can be as effective as medication for many people.
Sleep deprivation, for instance, dramatically impacts testosterone production. Men who consistently sleep less than 6 hours nightly can see testosterone drops equivalent to ageing 10-15 years. For women, inadequate sleep disrupts hormone cycles and reduces desire. Yet how many doctors conduct detailed sleep assessments when treating sexual health concerns?
Exercise doesn’t just improve cardiovascular health generally—it specifically enhances sexual function through multiple mechanisms: improving blood flow, boosting testosterone, reducing stress hormones, increasing energy and stamina, improving body image and confidence, and enhancing mood through endorphin release.
Nutrition similarly affects sexual health in specific ways. Diets high in processed foods, sugar, and unhealthy fats impair vascular function, promote inflammation, and disrupt hormone balance. Meanwhile, Mediterranean-style diets rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and healthy fats specifically support sexual function.
Alcohol deserves special mention. Most men know excessive drinking impairs sexual function acutely. What’s less discussed is that moderate-to-heavy drinking (more than 2 drinks daily) chronically suppresses testosterone, damages liver function, affecting hormone metabolism, impairs sleep quality, and contributes to weight gain—all negatively impacting sexual health over time.
At Ashok Clinic, we provide detailed lifestyle counselling because we’ve seen that comprehensive lifestyle modification often produces improvements matching or exceeding pharmaceutical interventions—with the added benefit of improving overall health rather than just managing symptoms.
Insight #9: Timing Matters: Early Intervention Prevents Serious Problems
Most patients wait months or years before seeking specialised help for sexual health concerns. They hope problems will resolve spontaneously, try over-the-counter supplements, or simply suffer in silence. Meanwhile, the underlying causes progress.
Early intervention is crucial for several reasons. Physical causes like cardiovascular disease worsen over time if untreated. Psychological factors like performance anxiety become more entrenched the longer they persist. Relationship problems escalate as frustration and resentment build. Treatment becomes more complex and lengthy as conditions become chronic.
I’ve treated men whose erectile dysfunction was easily resolved with lifestyle changes and stress reduction when addressed early, but who waited years until the problem had worsened and developed into severe performance anxiety requiring extensive counselling. I’ve seen couples whose sexual difficulties could have been quickly addressed through education and communication training—but who waited until resentment had created such distance that saving the relationship required months of intensive couple therapy.
Your general doctor probably mentioned you should follow up if problems persist. What they likely didn’t convey is the importance of seeking specialised care promptly rather than enduring months or years of dysfunction while hoping it resolves.
Insight #10: There's No "One-Size-Fits-All" Treatment (Despite What Quick Prescriptions Suggest)
When doctors prescribe medication during brief appointments without extensive evaluation, they’re essentially applying a one-size-fits-all approach. But sexual health is deeply individual—what works brilliantly for one person may fail for another.
Two men with “identical” erectile dysfunction may need entirely different treatments. One’s ED stems primarily from cardiovascular issues and responds well to PDE5 inhibitors plus exercise. The other’s ED is primarily stress-related and responds better to Ashwagandha, meditation, and counselling. Giving both men the same prescription produces very different outcomes.
Similarly, two women with low libido might have completely different underlying causes. One experiences hormonal changes requiring hormone support and possibly Ayurvedic herbs like Shatavari. The other is exhausted from sleep deprivation and unaddressed stress, needing sleep optimisation, stress reduction, and possibly antidepressant adjustment.
Personalised treatment requires time to understand your unique situation—your medical history, lifestyle, relationship dynamics, stress levels, psychological factors, and treatment preferences. It requires a willingness to adjust approaches based on your response rather than rigidly following protocols. It demands integration of multiple treatment modalities rather than relying solely on medication.
This personalisation is impossible in 10-minute appointments focused on writing prescriptions. It requires the specialised expertise and time that sexual health specialists provide.
What This Means for You: Taking Control of Your Sexual Health
These insights aren’t meant to discourage you from seeing your general practitioner—they’re invaluable for most health concerns. But they highlight why sexual health problems specifically benefit from specialised care.
If you’re experiencing erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, low libido, painful intercourse, or other sexual health concerns, consider these steps:
Seek Specialised Care: Consult practitioners who focus specifically on sexual health and have extensive experience with diverse cases. The depth of knowledge and time available in specialised clinics produces far better outcomes than general practice can provide.
Expect Comprehensive Evaluation: Your initial consultation should be 45-60 minutes minimum, with detailed questions about physical health, psychological factors, lifestyle, relationships, and medical history. If you’re in and out in 10 minutes with a prescription, you haven’t received adequate evaluation.
Demand Integrated Treatment: The best outcomes come from approaches combining modern medicine, traditional systems like Ayurveda, lifestyle modification, psychological support, and, when relevant, couples counselling. Be sceptical of providers offering only one approach.
Prioritise Root Causes: While symptomatic relief matters, lasting improvement requires identifying and addressing underlying causes. Your treatment plan should target the “why” of your sexual health issue, not just the symptoms.
Involve Your Partner: Sexual health exists within relationship contexts. When appropriate, include your partner in consultations, education, and treatment planning.
Be Patient: Sexual health problems often develop over months or years. Resolution takes time. While some interventions work quickly, sustainable improvement typically requires 8-12 weeks of comprehensive treatment.
A Final Insight: You Deserve Better Than Rushed, Incomplete Care
The most important thing your doctor probably won’t tell you—but I will after 50 years in this field—is this: your sexual health matters. It deserves more than rushed appointments, quick prescriptions, and surface-level treatment. It deserves comprehensive evaluation, personalised treatment, integration of multiple approaches, attention to underlying causes, and ongoing support.
Sexual health profoundly affects your overall well-being, confidence, relationships, and quality of life. It’s also a window into your general health, often revealing serious conditions before other symptoms appear. Addressing sexual health comprehensively isn’t indulgent—it’s essential healthcare.
You don’t have to accept “that’s just how it is” or “here’s a pill, see you in six months.” You can demand and receive expert care that takes your sexual health as seriously as any other aspect of wellbeing.
After 50 years helping thousands of Delhi residents reclaim their sexual health, I can tell you with certainty: comprehensive, specialised treatment works. The integrated approach combining modern medicine, Ayurvedic wisdom, lifestyle modification, and psychological support produces remarkable results. But it requires going beyond what general practitioners can provide in standard appointments.
Your sexual health journey deserves expert guidance, adequate time, comprehensive evaluation, and personalised treatment. It deserves the care that 50 years of specialised experience can provide.
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✓ Detailed sexual health evaluations (45-60 minutes)
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✓ Performance anxiety counselling
✓ Couple therapy and relationship counselling
✓ Ongoing support and monitoring
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